BEAUTY PAGEANTS AND TRUTH:Last night I heard a comment by Donald Trump during an interview with Gloria Van
Sustern: The observation by Mr. Trump that Carrie
Prejean's beliefs were important (only) because she was an exceptional beauty is disturbing. To paraphrase, he said that if she had been moderately good looking or ugly or a man, then her comments would not have mattered. What ever happened to our acceptance of truth because it is good and right? Should we give special credibility to what the "beautiful people" have to say?
Shopenhauer said (paraphrased) that only a child or a saint would expect truth to be accepted because it was true. Is our world view so corrupted by the artificial enhancements of wealth and plastic surgery that what is beautiful and just are respected only because they meet the standards of the politic?
Should those with greater stature, beautiful hair, perfect teeth and a great smile have a monopoly on wisdom and truth? It seems to me that we are manipulated by the physically elite: car salesmen, cosmetic sales people and newscasters all seem to be chosen because of their physical type. Are we so pathetic that we allow ourselves to be persuaded by these to buy their products and to believe what they say even when our own innate logic tells us that it is too good to be true? Do we believe that they will be our friends because we buy their spiel?
In our saner moments we may think that the "plain Jane" or the "ugly guy" is telling us the truth because he is not trying to sell us anything; after all what could he gain by saying what is not popular? I suppose that we deserve to be be "fooled" if we listen to the evangelist on TV because (he/or she) is so well dressed and he has such a wonderful voice. Does anyone really think that John the Baptist was a personality of the type that we regularly see on TV? Do you really think that the Messiah made his appeal to Israel on the basis of his fancy clothes and his physical presence? Of course not! The prophet Isaiah said that Jesus would not have any beauty that would attract followers. On the contrary, He would be poor and considered by many to be the
illegitimate son of Mary, a teen-age girl from a wide spot in the road up in
Galilee called Nazareth.
Don't get me wrong: I would gladly introduce Carrie
Prejean to my son as a prospective bride, but not just because of her physical beauty. She has a self-
confidence and presence that is seldom found in young women today in America. Unfortunately like so many young girls today, she has paid a high price in order to fit into the social
parameters of beauty that are touted by the market. It is sad to see the beauty of innocence reduced to a marketable product. The market claims to have made beauties out of pimple faced children, yet they only focus on the few with natural beauty to sell their beauty products to those who, lets face it, will never win a pageant. Yet, many have bought into the idea that they too can be a queen: First they have to starve, or get implants; then buy hundreds of dollars of the right cosmetics and learn how to put on "the face", and the right hair color (maybe some weave); then for a few thousand dollars they can build a wardrobe that will accent the stunning figure (shaped at the expense of many hours in the gym, as well as starvation); then there are the perfumes, lotions and
pheromone enhanced scents, followed by a marketing campaign complete with glamour shots and a press agent: all for what?
Although many young women do still have the idea of interesting a young man and getting married, most of them are taking the pill and have no interest in sex for other than bait to attract a man. To enter a relationship threatens all of the hard work and self sacrifice needed to compete in the world of beauty. Pregnancy must be considered a disaster for those who fall in love. If love leads to babies, then love must be a bad thing. If there is no thought of establishing a family, what is there to keep this man? You must face reality ladies, youth is a fleeting thing. Roses bud and bloom in a few short weeks; so will you. It is possible to freeze a rose, but it will have no fragrance or beauty. It will be brittle and fragile just like those women who refuse to accept the process of aging. All flowers exist for one purpose: reproduction. This has been forgotten and will lead to remorse when the beauty queen realizes that her chance at family is gone.
Young men, if there is no thought of any lasting relationship and family, why should any self respecting young woman allow herself to be used as a plaything by you?
Maybe the element that has been lost in our society is
family. This seems to be at the heart of the "change" that many are speaking of when they call for gay marriage. After all why go through all the heartache and broken hearts for no real purpose? No wonder so many people are lost to the world of drugs, alcohol and gluttony. Without love and without purpose life can be an overwhelming proposition: no wonder there are so many suicides. Little wonder that some secular humanists have no compunction about ending the lives of those who are no longer (or never were) beautiful by their standards. Are we willing for them to decide whether we are worth the support needed by society?
If people have no moral center, no purpose in life, no goal other than pleasure, then these so called beauty pageants are just a vain attempt to get attention from others- at any price. When we see old beauties and hunks of yesteryear, we are often appalled at their appearance. They are often gaunt bags of bones or porcine tubs of lard, while many of those who were considered to be plain in their youth have matured into attractive respectable examples of real and loveable humanity.
Which is the life that you will choose? Are you going to pursue the goal of
self which demands physical strength and beauty that is only going to last a very short time and will result in many disappointments and privations? Or, will you pursue a life that is connected: dedicated to others that will give you a lifetime of happy interactions with everyone around you. Only when you have a real family network are you safe from the dog eat dog competitiveness that will devour your soul.
If you want to be recognized as the ideal person, what better way to get attention than from your own children and grandchildren? Life is about life! The attempts to buy attention or to borrow it from others will never be as satisfying as to receive it generously from your own family.